(1:43 PM)
email excerpt
approximate quote from an email I sent.People always say, "it's not fair" after a death, making me wonder why we keep passing on the idea that things should be fair. Fairness only really can apply to choices, not to events. Fairness is a myth like the warm ocean of the Caribbean. Here it is the perfect weather for everything, if only because we have no choice but to do everything in this weather.